Friday, January 04, 2008

Nice Guys?

Okay so this post can be blamed on a friend of mine that I won't call bitter (although the term comes to mind), instead we'll call her jaded. As we were discussing the lack of nice guys, we both had to admit something. The nice guys never took a risk. They never asked you out, never went for a stolen kiss, never asked for a dance. They were content to let the jerks do all the work. The jerks had no problem asking for a date,or a kiss, or more. Then when we started dating the jerks at first you could see they were fine with the jerk as they expected him to not last long and if they thought that could get away with it, they would badmouth the jerk behind his back. Slowly, you stopped talking to the nice guy as it always seemed awkward and forced. One day you wake up and realize the nice guy has disappeared and all your left with is the jerk. Personally, I kind of admire the jerk, I'm sure it takes a lot of hard work to be as uncaring and selfish as they normally are and their ability to lie and deceive is truly masterful. So the point I was getting to was that the nice guy only has himself to blame, if he had stepped up and taken a chance I'm sure it would have worked out in is favour. If anything the nice guy should be blamed for assisting in the formation of so many bitches in the world. Being a bitch can be completely avoided if a female never comes in contact with a jerk. What happens is there is a chemical reaction that occurs when a female and a jerk collide and it results in a bitch. Had the nice guy simply stepped up, the majority of the world's bitches could have been avoided. If anything the nice guy is the root of all that is wrong in relationships.

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